Life is Hard
Well, life is not boring around here. My husband walked out on us on Sunday. I have until the end of the month to find an apt for me and my four kids (one being his and only 2 mos old). If any of you pray, I need them more than I ever have before. That I find a place to live, and can make the right decisions to support my children, and peace for my husband for this decision he has made without any warning. I won’t get into grizzly details because it won’t do me any good anyway. This being a weight loss site, I must say that this is the first time I have ever lost weight without any effort. I dropped 5.5 lbs by Tues and I’ve lost another few since. Fat is melting off me like butter. I am breastfeeding my baby though, and the lack of eating is hard on him. I’m trying to concentrate on eating a little more each day for his sake. I’m currently packing, transfering everything we have joint (checking acct etc.), looking for a place to live, trading vehicles to a more managable one, working full time+, taking care of my baby at home and work, and keeping my teenage son from melting. My other two are with their father in Nebraska, thank God. I know this isn’t what this site is for, but we all know it all ties together, and I need all the support I can get. Thanks gang.
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OK, this is NOT the end of the world Beebee. It’s a terrible, unfair situation to be left alone with a little baby but you are a strong woman honey and you will survive. You did survive some bad things before, remember?
I am not going to say anything bad about your husband. He must be really confused to say the least. My only advise is to not make any emotional decisions and sit on it for at least a week or two.
Do you have anyone to help you out? Are you SLEEPING? If you are not sleeping and not eating, you may crush down really fast and this is something that you and your baby can’t afford right now.
(((Beebee)))… deep breath…
You are in my thoughts and prayers. You will get through this. I know that it may seem like the end of the world, but the chaos will come to an end. Good luck with everything you must accomplish by months end.
I can relate to what you are going thru. Two years ago my husband left…
My prayers are with you and the kids. I dont know how much help I can give you, Im still dealing with an unresolved situation… but I can support you as much as possible. Please feel free to send me a message if you would like to talk…Im so sorry…
So sorry to hear this news. I do remember the strength you have. We’ll keep you in our prayers for sure.
One day at a time, and I’ll be here if you need a buddy. Big hugs coming for you and the kids.
Oh Beebee, I am so sorry. Lots of prayers going up. And you will get thru this. This site is not only about weight loss, but about people loving and caring and supporting each other. Here for you! Hugs, Kama
Praying for you girl. We love you.